It’s been probably about 20 years since I’ve been to a Chargers game. I remember very few specifics. Chargers played the Chiefs. I was surprised to find that one of my friends from junior high was a Charger Girl. Given the age of the cheerleaders, I’m guessing it had to be about 20 years ago. And yes, that makes me feel really, really old.
I was excited for the game yesterday. I was attending with a fabulous business group called WISE – Women in Sports and Events – a group which is emerging in San Diego. It’s a national organization and after seeing their success in Los Angeles, I am eager to be a part of the formation in San Diego. As the board member who is serving to do marketing for the group, I’ll be mentioning the events and programs we produce often.
So it was with WISE that I found myself tailgating before the game. With one of our board members an employee with the Chargers, we had a great set-up for the day. We even had the chance to meet Chargers Executive VP and CFO, Jeanne Bonk (far left in photo above). It was nice to get better acquainted with the gals and enjoy pre-game festivities.
Once inside, we took our seats up in the view section, behind the endzone, opposite the big scoreboard. As we sat down, I took in the view and the atmosphere and realized just how many Bengals fans were in the stadium, and how many empty seats there were.
Another thing that surprised me is how few players and personnel are actually on the sidelines. On camera, it looks to be full. But from above, you can see that the roster is not all that deep. And we could see Norv, with his complacent stance and slow steps up and down the field. There is nothing inspiring about that man.
The game was the game – nothing overly exciting happened, as you know. We enjoyed watching the defense score and the kicker score, but Rivers and his offense went scoreless for this match-up.
Of all the things that happened during the game, the event which stuck with me the most happened in the stands. Right about the start of the 4th quarter and three sections over from us, a fight broke out and a bunch of people jumped to their feet. The event staff and police arrived on the scene. It took them several minutes to calm everyone down. And it seemed they cleared up the issue. However, about five minutes after the police and event staff left, the two men went at it again. And then even more event staff and police showed up.
At the moment this happened, a group of small boys, probably 5-7 years old, were escorted out by the three or so dads who brought them to the game. All the little boys were decked out in their Charges gear and they all held hands as they went down the stairs and exited. I’m sure they were confused and upset they had to leave. But the fathers made the right choice. The scene unfolding was pretty nasty. I know those men/families paid a lot of money for those little tykes to watch the game. It was such a shame that the fathers were forced to end their outing early because some jerks in the “cheap” seats couldn’t control themselves. I wish we had seen the event staff escort this precious group of boys to another section – there were certainly plenty of open seats!
The drunks who started the commotion were eventually escorted out in handcuffs (which should have been done at the first altercation). That’s all good and well, but I do wonder what those dads told their little boys. And I am sad that what was probably their first Chargers experience is tainted with violence and drunken idiots. I get so frustrated when I see situations like this.
Have you experienced a Chargers game this season? How did you enjoy game-day?
When I lived in Japan, I was lucky enough to be present for the 2006 World Cup. Having met Japan’s goalie, Yoshikatsu Kawaguchi, in 2005, I was a huge fan of the team and enjoyed many Jubilo Iwata soccer games during the regular season. During the 2006 World Cup, met up with my J-friends and cheered in unison with everyone else wearing samurai blue. I even woke up at 4am for a couple games, also the final, even though Japan wasn’t playing.
During World Cup mania, my students would often ask me, “If Japan and US are in the final, who will you cheer for?” (Actually, they asked this more in the form of our classroom English, “Do you like Japan team or USA team?”) My response was always, “I like both.” They understood that I am American, but have a deep love for Japan and my J-peeps. Japan made me a FIFA fan.
During the men’s World Cup last year, I watched several matches, as Vietnam is a soccer crazy country and most games were televised at the Press Club, where I worked and all over Hanoi. As I watched Japan play, I wore my official blue jersey in support and jumped for joy when they beat Denmark and shed a tear when their run ended against Paraguay. The team advanced further than they ever had and I was tremendously proud. My friends in Japan emailed me often through the tournament to check if I was cheering for Japan. I also gathered with lots of my mates for an England match along with my fellow expats (USA matches weren’t always shown). I was equally bummed when the US did not pull off a win against Ghana, ending their enthusiastic run. I was happy for Spain, in the end and enjoyed watching that country celebrate its victory (and secretly wished I could be there to join in the fun!)
On Sunday, I was excited for the game, yet I was really conflicted as to who to cheer for. In all honesty, I wanted both teams to win. Both teams had put up a good fight to get to the final and both teams had equally compelling stories as to how meaningful the win would be for them. My heart was torn.
I was online during the game, tweeting and chatting with other friends on Facebook at crucial moments of the game. With the ESPN announcers writing off the Japanese after the US scored their first goal, I found myself pulling more for Japan than for the US. How can you write off any team with almost twenty minutes left in the game? The online sentiments were about the same… looked like the USA was going to pull off the win. And I found I kept shaking my head with the resounding over-confidence of the US.
We all know what happened in the game. US took more shots and Japan played heavily on the defensive. Yet, at the end of play, the score was tied. And at the end of extended play, the score was tied. To me, that does not mean that the US handed Japan the game or that the US deserved to win. The game was tied. The score was even. And at the end of the day, Japan blocked penalty kicks and landed more in the net to win the game in a shoot out.
What followed the game was a long list of sentiments that rang to the tune of “The US should have won that game.” All I could think of is, “Why?” @NikeWomen even tweeted “The Toughest Losses Make The Strongest Teams. Incredible effort by #USWNT. Congrats, Japan. #PressureMakesUs.” Was even Nike saying that the US was the better team and that somehow the loss makes the US the stronger team? Notice the order of the comments…Nike couldn’t even begin with a congratulatory note. (BTW – there has been nay a tweet from @NikeWomen referring to #PressureMakesUs or Japan’s win/USA’s loss since the above post-game tweet, instead moving forward with a #MakeYourself campaign.)
In a San Diego forum, a comment read: Am I the only one who realizes that Japan did not deserve this win, they did nothing for it, the US gave it to them. Should have been 4-1 US by the end of it all. Stupid luck was all it is.
Really? So it was sheer luck that got Japan to the finals? Did they just bypass all the qualifiers and semi-final matches and magically appear in the final? Or did they work just as hard, play just as tough and earn, just as much, their spot in the final game? Japan’s final game strategy may have been different than America’s but ultimately, Japan scored more goals. Ultimately, Japan won the game. “Deep down inside, I really thought it was our destiny to win it,” Carli Lloyd said. “But maybe it was Japan’s.” Even US players had to attribute their loss to something greater than Japan’s or their own abilities. You would be hard pressed to find comments from the Japanese players stating that they felt they deserved to win or it was the team’s fate to be champions.
One of the biggest factors of culture shock in returning to the US is to see, hear and feel the ego of America. There is nothing wrong with patriotism, except when it borders on arrogance. Hubris is never cool, never sexy, and never results in the win. The US team and supporters could do well by being happy for Japan, by genuinely congratulating them on their win and most importantly, maintaining a winning attitude. Nobody likes a sore loser. Is that what pressure makes us?
My friend Michelle has been an awesome friend since my return to San Diego. She’s been one of the most instrumental people in helping me settle-in and re-establish myself in my hometown. She also happens to be well connected. So was the case today, when we attended the Padre game.
Her boss, Doug is married to a wonderful woman in the Padres’ organization and so we enjoyed the Gnome giveaway night from the 19th row just on the first base side of home plate. The seats were fantastic, the beer hit the spot, the Padres won and Michelle went home with two Gnomes.
Great day at the ballpark! Expect more Gnome pictures as the Padres want photos of the Gnome about town. That’s a fun challenge!
When tickets went on sale, I looked online, but found that all of the “good” seats were already taken. StubHub was selling tickets at ridiculous prices. It was a pretty simple goal – I wanted to be at Padres Opening Day and I wanted that to be the first time I went to PETCO Park.
It turned out that through the Friarhood Fan Club, I won two tickets to the game! Woo hoo! So I called up my good friend Randy to see if his schedule was open and the two of us headed out to the game.
Downtown was absolutely packed for Opening Day. With luck, I squeezed the little Toyota Yarius I’m renting into the last spot on a lot on G Street. I hear it’s a good idea to park at the convention center?
With cheap seat tickets in hand (no complaints, they were free!), Randy and I explored the park, which I must say, is absolutely awesome. I love the layout, the ability to walk all around the park, get good views from some of the stand-only spots (where this photo was taken).
We enjoyed a couple beers, chatted with a few guys who always buy the cheap seats and stand in this spot because they feel for $5.00 it’s the best view in the park. Randy and I caught up a bit on our own lives, both at interesting junctures. Funny how a ball game brings out meaningful conversation.
Randy had to head out, but I caught up with my friend Michelle and just after the game, headed to the hot spot, Basic, a great bar which serves flat, square pizzas. Good stuff.
Best part of the day, Padres beat the Giants. Awesome home opener and a fun day at the ball park!
A quick note today to wrap up the World Cup coverage on Japan. I watched the game last night and bit my nails watching Japan suffer a heartbreaking loss to Paraguay, loosing by penalty kicks. It was Komano’s kick that missed the goal, and I just hope this talented player is not holding the responsibility too heavy on his shoulders. The scenes of Japanese fans crying, the players crying…it was all too much. It was truly heartbreaking!
As much as I wanted Japan to move at least one more level up, I have to say that they had an amazing tournament and have made vast improvements in skill from 2006. It’s never fun to end your run on penalty kicks, but that’s soccer and that’s the way it goes. I think they did an amazing job this year.
Again a big thank you to the boys in blue for a great and exciting run. I can’t wait for 2014!!! I’m proud to cheer for Japan and the Samurai Blue!!!
I love the World Cup. It might be evident that I have a fondness for Japan’s national team after posting news about their wins against Denmark and Cameroon and advancing to the top 16. Having lived in Japan for five years, and on the heels of my recent vacation, I am a little partial to the Samurai Blue! However, that doesn’t mean that I have not been cheering for the US or ignoring the other games.
In the first week of matches, the games times were 6:30pm, 9:00pm and 1:30am here in Hanoi. Leading up to this past weekend, the games were shown only at 9:00pm and 1:30am. I stayed up Friday morning to watch Japan beat Denmark, but I’ve also crowded into the hotspot to cheer on England (the only game shown in the bars here) and check the FIFA.com like a crazy person and high-fived all my British fans when we all learned that the US had won too. I was even at the bar at 1:30am on Sunday morning to cheer the US vs. Ghana and watched the Germany vs. England game from home last night, as I was still recovering from being up past 3am twice in 3 days!
I’m super bummed that the US didn’t beat Ghana. It was such a let down after their last-second goal against Algeria. Did you see all those celebration videos posted to You Tube? I was also heartbroken for England. I never expected Germany to crush their defense, and I am disturbed that another team was robbed of their goal.
I’m hopeful that Japan can beat Paraguay and go farther in this tournament than they ever have before. They are really a solid team with no prima donnas (yes, a reference to Nakata and Takahara) and while I have no illusions that they will win, I would be happy if they move on just one more step. I can’t wait for the Argentina/Germany game which will be prime time here. I think Spain will take Portugal and I take the risk to predict a Netherlands vs. Argentina final which will offer amazing play on the field and a win for the Argentinians.
You all know I’m a huge soccer fan and particularly enjoyed watching the World Cup in Japan in 2006. I’ve been just as enthusiastic to catch all the action here in Hanoi, as well as cheer for my Samurai Blue. The games in 2006 were often broadcast late at night or 4am. Since I was in the habit of waking up at 5am in those days, the 4am games were not such a killer. I tend to state up late now that I live in Hanoi, but you would be surprised how hard it is to stay awake for a game which starts at 1:30am!
Nonetheless, this is what I did and I’m super happy about it!!!
I can’t wait to watch them play again! They looks strong and solid and while I don’t think they will win the Cup, I do think they have a valid chance of passing through the top 16. GO JAPAN!!!